Clara McBride Hale, affectionately known as Mother Hale to
most, was a widow with three children and a high school education at age
19. So she went to work cleaning houses
by day, and working as a janitor at night.
But being away from her children so much was increasingly unacceptable
to her. So she started a daycare out of
her own home for children in her Harlem neighborhood. And the love in the Hale home was so great
many of the children began staying there, seeing their parents on weekends.
As Mother Hale’s family began to grow, she embraced her
calling further by becoming a foster parent in 1940. By the time she retired from her foster care
ministry in 1968 she had reared and successfully launched over 40 children into
the world, full of love, and self-esteem, and hope. And if that was all Clara Hale
had done, she’d be a hero.
But just as
Mother Hale was settling into retirement, her daughter brought a
heroin-addicted young mother and her baby home.
That afternoon, while Mother made a phone call in the other room, the
young mom left…without her baby---returning several weeks later with more of
her children to leave with Hale. By then
twenty-two more drug-addicted babies had been dropped off. And Hale House was born. At the time, laws restricted foster homes to
twelve children at a time, and Mother later confessed they routinely housed
thirty to forty---she simply couldn’t say no.
Mother Hale,
joined by her own adult children, cared for each one of these babies so well
that eventually the public began to hear about this heroic woman and her
ministry to abandoned babies. And the
financial support came. This enabled
Hale to purchase a five-story brownstone on 122nd Street in the
heart of Harlem for her ever-growing family.
By the 1980’s, Hale House was also accepting babies infected with the
AIDS virus.
Eventually Hale
House would include a live-in rehabilitation program where drug-addicted
mothers would receive medical and psychological care and job training while
they got sober. The goal was to reunite
parents with their children, and a true sign of the program’s success was that
in 1989, of the hundreds of children placed in foster care at Hale house, only
twelve had to be adopted out.
It was
estimated that by 1991 Clara Hale had cared for over 1,000 infants and babies.
And she worked
virtually til the day she died. It was
reported that to the end she had at least one baby in her own bedroom to hold
and love.
Mother Hale was
fond of saying, “When I get to Heaven I’m going to rest.” With her spirit, I seriously doubt it.
Clara Hale is a hero you should
know. And I’m Dr. Ross Porter.
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