On a cold November
morning three years ago, as Shyam Bihari Prasad entered his Hanuman Hindu Temple
in Vasant Kunj New Delhi, India to pray, he was approached for the umpteenth
time by the neighborhood’s poor children, begging for food and money. But this time, as he gave them biscuits from
his own lunch, a thought crossed his mind.
Instead of giving them charity that would last a few hours, why not
offer something that would last a lifetime? So the retired business manager decided to try
something new---something that could truly alter the lives of these
children. Education.
He had discovered
that the youths were either not able to go to school, or were frustrated in
their learning by the limitations of the over-crowded and underfunded school
system. So he set up his own school, for
any child who wanted to learn. The
sidewalk outside the Temple became his classroom, and his supplies initially consisted
of one mat. But what he had in abundance
was the time and the patience to offer one-to-one instruction for each student.
So, from 8:00
to 11:00 A.M. five mornings a week, Prasad would teach children of all ages a
variety of subjects. At first he had to
bribe them with chocolate and toffee to attend, but soon the students were coming
on their own---the incentive to learn from a caring adult was enough. Prasad earned the nickname “Uncle”, and his
‘school’ grew to thirty students.
The locals,
noticing the charity work, began donating food and school supplies---mats,
tables, chairs, textbooks, pencils, notebooks and paper, and easels. Several adults even took over some of the
teaching load.
Presently the
‘sidewalk school’---stronger than ever---includes lessons in Math, Science,
Spelling and Writing (of Hindi, and English).
And as distracting as the constant honking of cars and chatty foot
traffic must be, the eager students stay amazingly focused.
Along with
higher test scores, Prasad has also observed an unanticipated benefit of his
kindness---his children, at first verbally and even (on occasion) physically
abusive toward each other, have become increasingly empathic and kind in their
interactions. They’re not only learning
to be better students, their learning to be better human beings.
Prasad is
motivated by the goal of giving these under-privileged youths as much of an
opportunity for success as the children of the wealthy. But wherever his students end up, they will
have learned that they are lovable, and loved.
And that’s the most important lesson of all.
Shyam Bihari Prasad is a hero you should
know. And I’m Dr. Ross Porter.